TRAGOVI UBICE 50 – ALEN I ANKA LAMBERT i žuta kuća užasa⁉️

TRAGOVI UBICE 50 – ALEN I ANKA LAMBERT i žuta kuća užasa⁉️

In the heart of Rijeka, behind the darkened windows of an ordinary house on Turnjić, a secret that no one suspected was hidden for years. Neighbors sometimes heard unusual sounds, too loud music. And sometimes they thought they heard screams and moans. And then one day everything surfaced and the truth was revealed. The body of a woman who neighbors believed no longer lived in the house was found inside a locked room in the dark, out of sight. This is the story of a yellow house that became a tomb for 30-year-old Tanja Brnelić. And who was Tanja Brnelić? Tanja Brnelić was born in 1976 in Rijeka. Her mother Radojka and father Josip, they were workers. My mother was a cleaner at the student center Ivan Goran Kovačić in Rijeka. And my father worked as a crane operator at the Rijeka Shipyard. Criminalists, police officers, and inspectors who later deal with the investigation of the most terrible crimes say that there is always a murderer, and the whole case is best investigated from a personal perspective. When we investigate the personality, we discover in fact the motives of the killer or the motives of the victim: Why did she choose to go that way. And now parents, as parents in those times, decided that the cheapest option is for the child to grow up, not in some nurseries, or later there those preschool institutions. Her parents gave her to her father’s parents. She also grew up with her grandparents in the so-called “grandma service” from Monday to Friday. And on weekends to be with his parents in the apartment. We see that she did not live with her parents, which is very strange. They also lived in Udatnoga street number eight. By the way, this is the apartment that Tanja’s father got from the Rijeka Shipyard where he worked. And he had a good salary. Crane operators were always well paid. And now I don’t understand that story a little bit: And now I don’t understand that story a little bit: How are the parents, in fact, it’s as if they gave the child to a foster family, regardless of the fact that they are Josip’s parents. It is strange to me that the mother and father decide that the child grows up with his grandparents for the whole week, and he is with them only for some weekends in the apartment. Yes. This shows that the mother did not have any excessive desire or will to deal with her daughter. And it shows in fact that they were very bad parents. Now, this kind of raising a child in that period, especially when it comes to the only child who was born in the mid-70s, when the standard was already as good as it was at that time. It is Rijeka, an industrial center, a port city. It had good and built pre-school institutions, nurseries and so on. And now it is not clear to me if they really wanted to remove the child from their neighborhood, so that he would not be in that building for more than a week because something terrible is happening there, say maybe drug addiction, prostitution or who knows what? Or was it actually the cheapest option, as I said, using the “grandparent service” service? I just can’t believe that they live alone because they are too busy. Or, as young people, they wanted to live without that one child, so that it wouldn’t bother them, say, in a relaxed way of life, say making love or who knows what. What every psychologist knows: What every psychologist knows: “Show me a man who has problems with his psyche, who has problems especially with some kind of social environment. I’ll show you a man who comes from a broken family.” And now there are nuances. When you go a little deeper into his psychology, his psychopathology, his social pathology, it becomes clear to you why this is so. Because I don’t believe that Tanja’s mother Radojka worked two shifts there in that student center as a cleaner, or that her father worked two shifts. It is known that crane operators have reduced working hours. And they work for a maximum of 6 hours. So he could not work for 12 hours or 16 hours. I absolutely cannot understand why they gave up their child growing up next to them and influencing him, raising him. Because a child at that age needs both a mother and a father. And here it is: “He is coming as a guest”. She had no control. We all know that grandparents are always weak towards their grandchildren. And they are no longer in such a shape that they can adequately respond to all the demands of a child who is dynamic, full of life, full of energy. I am not saying that there are no such cases. There are some. They are everywhere, especially in guest worker environments where parents work, for example, abroad, and children stay with their grandparents. However, even in those cases, the grandparents organize the story that the children go to kindergarten or to the kindergarten every day some preschool institution. I knew a man who was also quite problematic. He had that other extreme. So his mother gave him absolutely everything. His father was not there. So he didn’t learn to be punished, because the father is a punishment in that certain psychology. The father is the order, and the mother would be the reward. The mother constantly and constantly and constantly gave the reward, and there was never a father or any other authority. There was also an older sister who looked after him as well. But Tanja’s parents knew best the reason why they decided on such a way of raising their child. But I think that’s the wrong story. Or an example when you have the youngest child who is, say, the fourth child. And now it very often runs away from responsibility. Why? Because it taught that the father is responsible. If it is not the father, then it is the mother, for example, or vice versa. Then there is the eldest brother, then the second brother, then the sister. And it’s never his fault. And later in life, it often happens that he has problems with taking responsibility. Tanja also grew up with her grandparents. He goes to school later. Even during that period, when the child was in the first, second, third, fourth grade, and later when he started up to the eighth grade, he was with his grandparents. And he comes again only for the weekend with his parents. And well, that’s how Tanja grew up. And when she was in the seventh grade, she was 14 years old. That was in 1990. Her father Josip had a heart attack and died. He came home after work. That was Friday. That Friday, Tanja came to spend the weekend with her parents. He had dinner, he went to watch Dnevnik. And while he was watching TV, he got sick. They called an ambulance, but unfortunately he could not be saved. He died too. So, at the age of 14, Tanja most likely experienced a great stress. And that left a big, big trauma on her, because she found herself in a situation where a person dies. And now that father Josip has passed away, unfortunately. Even after his father’s funeral, Radojka’s mother insisted that the child move now, that is, she did not insist, but took Tanja to live with her in the apartment. Tanja also lived with her mother. How did she perceive her mother Radojka? Only the two of them knew that. I guess they got close. Now how close have mother and daughter become? And how much was the mother actually aware that she now needs to position herself as a real mother and raise the child because he is in puberty, in the developmental phase and all sorts of things? It was a novelty for her now. Tanja comes to her parents’ apartment, lives with her mother. Tanja also started high school in 1991. He is finishing the first grade of secondary school. The first one ended up being barely enough. And she said to her mother one day: “Radojka, look, I think that school has not brought anyone anything good, so it won’t do me any good either.” And we see that she was already problematic somewhere in elementary and high school. He left high school at the age of 16. And that year of 1992, regardless of the fact that it was turbulent, wartime, total madness. In my opinion, it was again abnormal for a child to say to his mother: “Radojka, I’m not going to school anymore”. If she did not build a normal relationship in her childhood, first of all with her mother, because through her mother we get to know the world, we get to know people. If she didn’t build a relationship with her father, it means that later on, since the end of elementary school, let’s say from puberty, then in high school she was looking for exactly what she didn’t have. “I want to work as a waiter. I’m bored here at your place too. I’m moving to another apartment.” And mom agrees. And according to the mother’s story, the daughter is renting an apartment. And he doesn’t even check which apartment she’s going to. Later, we found out from some of Tanya’s friends that she told her mother at the age of 15 that she was actually going to live with her first boyfriend, who was 12 years older than her. Now I ask you again: Is that normal? So if we look at her first choice, one of the first choices is a much older man than her. So she is looking for a parental figure. She’s looking for what she’s never had: She’s looking for what she’s never had: For someone to care for her, for someone to be in control. Because it is very important for a child to have boundaries. Says mom Radojka: “How could I prevent my child from going to live in that apartment and work as a waiter?” I’m not saying that waitressing is an ugly thing. And I know that some girls and some boys become waiters at the age of 16 after completing, not high school, but after completing an eight-year school and only a waiter’s course . I’m not saying that there’s something shameful about it now and that it’s strange. The whole of Western Europe, and especially the whole of America, means that teenagers, as soon as they turn 16, 17, become waiters in order to supplement their pocket money and actually help their parents with their education, that is, to have some money of their own, to travel with the company. And finally, to learn to value their money. Because until a child starts earning money, he can’t even appreciate it, in my opinion. Children don’t like punishments, they don’t like boundaries, and they can’t live without them. Children cry because of it, and so on. However, tell the child that he has no limits, then he is insecure. To a child in that world of his children, which is the world of adults, where everyone is taller than him, where everyone is stronger, smarter than him, wiser. He needs a clear boundary, clear rules, to know what is allowed and what is not allowed. The child will sometimes cross the border, but it is important that it exists. But let’s face it, it is justified only in the conditions when the child does it during the summer vacation. And the one: “Mama Radojka, I don’t want to go to high school because school didn’t do anyone any good.” I don’t think I can understand it. But I absolutely understand the approval of one Radojka mom saying: But I absolutely understand the approval of one Radojka mom saying: “Okay daughter, you don’t want to go to school, it’s okay”. No matter how well she thought of her child, she did not know how to raise him, because she missed her child’s growth. She missed being by his side when his first teeth grow, when he has his first fever, when he has those childhood illnesses, measles, mumps and all sorts of things. She failed to share with her daughter her problems from school from the first to the eighth grade, that is, until high school. There were no boundaries with Tanja. And that’s why she was looking for a parent, a father, a mother, a border. And that then turns into a pathological relationship, into a sick relationship. Why? Well, because in childhood she didn’t learn what normal relationship is, what normal control is, what normal limits are. And it is most likely that the daughter decided to go live with her first boyfriend who she met out of revolt against the fact that she is now living with her mother . And you are now allowing a child of less than 16 years to move into the apartment of a young man who is 28 years old at that moment. Is that normal for you? It’s not. It’s not for me. It is most likely that Radojka missed it because she did not go to those parents’ meetings. Grandma and grandpa went. Because if she had gone to those parents’ meetings, she would have heard from the parents of other children, and perhaps from the teachers and professors themselves, that she as a mother has the right to make decisions that will affect her child, and even ban them. And according to the Croatian law that was valid at the time, she is not 18 years old, she is not of legal age, and she cannot go if her parents forbid her to go live with a young man whom Radojka has not even met. And he cannot be Tanya’s father, he is 12 years older. And now she allowed Tanya to live with that boy. How was she? I guess there was good and bad. She worked in cafes. She changed various taverns, various catering establishments. Time passed. By God, she did ten years of experience in bars. And one day, right at the beginning of 2002, she asked for a job at the famous Fenix ​​cafe. The cafe owner was pleased because he has a young, beautiful and experienced waitress. She has ten years of experience working in cafes. At that moment, she was single because she broke up with that first guy a long time ago. In the meantime, how many more relationships did she have? Only she knew that. In the meantime, she lived with some friends who were her roommates and colleagues at work. And it turns out that she liked to live everywhere, but not in the apartment of her deceased father and living mother. In the meantime, the grandparents died. The situation is such that I don’t know why this young girl didn’t move to live in her grandparents’ house? Now I don’t know, to whom that house was left as an inheritance by her grandparents. But generally she didn’t go to live there. She lives with her roommates, she lives with those friends. She has some of her own, as she imagined the modern way of life. One day, a young man entered Phoenix, whom she liked at first sight. That boy’s name was Allen Lambert. He had a high forehead, pale skin, black hair, a small nose and a thin small mouth. Such a specific description and appearance of a man. And it is most likely that some women like that type of men who look like some characters from movies, especially from horror movies, to those maltese lackeys and butlers to those vampires, not to mention Count Dracula and so on. I think he reminds me of someone who should be avoided by his very appearance. And just as in the animal world there are species that are marked by nature as dangerous, and nature deliberately gave them some specific colors and patterns so that they would be noticeable because they are dangerous, such as the hornet, tiger, viper, cobra, rattlesnake. Those snakes are striking. They can be seen in the distance, they still hiss, rattle. Likewise, certain people with their certain facial features are marked by nature, not to say by God, that they are dangerous and that they are ready to do something terrible to others. And that they don’t have a lot of feelings and understanding towards other people. Just because they are so marked, they may actually be human predators, and should be avoided. Most likely, many people do not agree with that. Tanja didn’t agree either. Tanya liked this young man, Allen Lambert, who lived with his mother Ankica and father Stjepan, whom everyone called Boris. The Lamberts lived in one building, one smaller building with a few apartments next to all those skyscrapers. Right below that skyscraper is that yellow house of theirs. Ankica’s mother, she was the head of that family. Everyone respected her and called her: “Boss”. Boris, her husband, also called her that. The son most likely had a certain awe towards his mother from birth and growing up. In a way, she was considered the dictator in the house, because everyone in that Tornić neighborhood said that Boris was actually some kind of cobbler. By the way, Boris was a mason. On one occasion, when he was drunk in the 90s when that crazy story started, when every returnee from a battlefield carried a weapon on his belt. One day, after working hours, Boris, that bricklayer’s story, entered a tavern, got drunk with his company. And he provoked a young man who was a former policeman, and who had most likely returned for some vacation from some battlefield. That former policeman took out his gun, repeated, and fired three shots at Boris from a distance of about 4.5 m. He was wounded. Two passed through him and one lodged in his pelvic bone. And they never operated on him because they were afraid that he might be taken away if there was an operation. As far as Boris was concerned, there was no point in bricklaying because he was not allowed to exert himself due to health reasons. He dragged himself so constantly from sick leave to sick leave, until he got a pension solution. While Ankica worked hard like a bee from apartment to apartment cleaning those apartments. And she kept bringing home money. And she enjoyed the most that when she got her daily wage, and even if she got a tip from some rich gentleman whose apartment she cleaned, she enjoyed buying some exotic fruit and bringing the money and putting it on the table. Her son Alen and her husband Boris also respected that. So she was in that house where they lived, she was constantly saying something to Boris: she was constantly saying something to Boris: “Boris, you were in the construction business. Call your bricklayer friends to build this, to do that, to paint the facade yellow.” And Boris listened to it. And all the little things were financed by Ankica. As for the son Allen, he finished elementary school with good grades. He also enrolled in secondary school. It was a high engineering school. He was a goddamn good student. However, it is interesting that this young man did not work, at least not professionally. He only occasionally worked with his mother when she had a big cleaning. He would go with her to help her in terms of carrying the vacuum cleaner, those buckets, the detergents and all that stuff. I mean a bit of a strange story. There was clearly something wrong with Allen . And the main story that was wrong, Allen was arrested several times in some police raids on cafes because he was in possession of illegal substances. The son was rumored to use drugs, which would not be strange for that area, since there were probably the most drugs in Rijeka even then, maybe not so much today, because today some recreational drugs are more popular. But then, that’s the time, it starts in the 80s, especially the 90s, that means the last years of Yugoslavia less, but more the first war years when heroin spread a lot. So the people in Turnič and those working-class neighborhoods are generally, if they were drug addicts, they used the worst drugs or those synthetic drugs. Even as a child and as a young man, I knew some people from Turnič and other parts of Rijeka they are not alive precisely because they overdosed on heroin. And the police registered him as a drug addict. So he was treated several times. And in addition to being treated in those hospitals for drug addiction, Allen had another problem. He had schizophrenic attacks. That schizophrenia was noticed by school psychologists back in his school. For his son, Allen, it is said that he was also schizophrenic, which means that he had some mental disorders. Even now, when they take drugs, it is very dangerous, because with them even the smallest amount of drugs, alcohol, can cause much greater behavioral disturbances than in normal people. I was a witness, since there was a lady living near me who had manic depression, maybe one glass of alcohol would have been enough for her if she was completely out of her mind, if she was completely lost. That means on their already fragile and fragile psyche, those various stimuli that change their consciousness, and they have, and thus have some disorder of perception of reality. And now drugs or alcohol are an additional trigger, an additional trigger in those conditions that they cannot control. So they have a hard time even when they have a normal state of consciousness, conditionally speaking normal, that is, when they don’t have some additional challenges, they have a hard time perceiving reality. Now imagine what it is like for them when we add drugs or alcohol to their problems with the perception of reality? Then there are countless people. Although, as far as I can see, the court did not fully take this into account, because after all, each of these people has morals. Because morality does not depend on your perception of reality. So one is a question of morality and ethics, and another is a question of reality. Because you can hallucinate that someone is chasing you, that you hear some voices. But that does not mean that you are not capable of determining what is good and what is bad. Morality and ethics are one thing, and the state of consciousness is another. Although in those perverted states of consciousness, of course you then have a perverted concept of morality. So it’s a closed circle. He probably had mental problems. And if he was increasing it with various opiates, drugs, then it was a recipe for disaster that ended up collimating. And it is most likely that Allen never had a permanent job for that reason, i.e. his mother Ankica took care, I guess, out of fear that Allen would do something stupid at work. She did not allow him to get a full-time job, so he was registered as an unemployed person at the labor office. But since he has this code, he was receiving some social assistance. Based on that, he verified the health card and went to treatment. So he was also treated for schizophrenia. Of course, one cannot recognize by the appearance of each person whether he is schizophrenic, paranoid or so on. But when you see a young man in the prime of his life in a Mediterranean seaside town who is as white as lime because the sun has never warmed him, you have to ask yourself: Why doesn’t that young man, like all his friends, go to the beach somewhere with girls? In the evening, he appeared here and there like a vampire in some cafes. Most likely, Tanya likes those guys who are pale. And she started dating him. And not only did she start dating him, she moved to live in their family’s yellow house of about 50 square meters, which is located in the Turnić neighborhood of Rijeka. Turnić, it is one of the most interesting neighborhoods in Rijeka, because Rijeka had an incredible population expansion there sometime in the 60s . And those came from people of lower social or educational status. These were people who came to work in the Port of Rijeka, to work in the Rijeka industry, people who were often uneducated. And people who had very little time in that hard work to dedicate themselves to raising children. So that asphalt on Turnič actually raised many generations there. And that’s one neighborhood that might be similar, in Belgrade, let’s say if we look at those skyscrapers over there towards Žarkovo. So there are quite a few buildings because Rijeka is on a hill. So it’s the same on the hill. A wonderful view of Rijeka. And what is specific about Turnič is that there are the largest residential buildings of 30 floors and more, the largest residential buildings in the Balkans. So, nowhere in the Balkans are there any buildings that are used for living. And then in those boxes, in those numerous skyscrapers, a lot of children, a lot of people. And that’s where drugs, crime, fans, confrontations started already in the late 70s and early 80s. And what is also specific for Turnič is that Rujevica practically leans on him. And Rujevica is the place of the largest Roma settlement in Rijeka. So people from the lower classes mixed in there. There is an industrial street under Turnič, which the name itself tells what it is about. A refinery is also nearby. It means a working-class settlement where poorer and less educated people lived. And in such apartments and houses, what Tolstoy himself said happens quite often: “Every rich family is happy in the same way, and every poor family is unhappy in its own way”. And he became a member of that household in 2002. Now, did Tanja inform her mother Radojka about that move and moving in with her new boyfriend? Absolutely, and I doubt it. Because Radojka’s mother is actually not even sure exactly what year her daughter moved into this yellow house that will enter the pages of the black chronicle, not only in Rijeka and Croatia, but in the entire region. And now the strangest thing in that story, Tanja, who has ten years of experience in a bar, starts dating, and in fact a form of extramarital union, with a young man who is a drug addict. Despite so much bar experience, she didn’t realize that he was using drugs. Second, he doesn’t work anywhere. Why didn’t she ask that young man a question: “Do you work? What do you do for a living? If you don’t work, why don’t you work?” It’s okay that at the age of 27 he is still a student of, say, medicine or mechanical engineering. But he is neither a student nor working, and he is in his prime. And white as milk. Tanya was not interested in that. It seemed that her interest and the most important thing at that moment was to move somewhere again. He moves into that yellow house in Turnič. And real hell begins for her. The first thing that was wrong: Mom works alone. Dad well, he’s retired, he doesn’t do anything else. The son does not work. Sister-in-law works as a waitress in Phoenix. And now all of a sudden they are at some kind of family meeting, where dad didn’t ask anything. A decision is made that Tanja will quit her job at Cafe Fenix ​​and no longer work. Imagine, the son doesn’t work, now the daughter-in-law doesn’t work either. I mean total madness. Allen forbids her to work. He forbids Tanya from seeing former colleagues from work. He forbids contact with his mother. Again, I don’t understand that mother Radojka. When she heard that her daughter, Tanja, lives there in some yellow house, in some neighborhood, why didn’t she go immediately to see where her daughter got married, because it is actually a type of extramarital union, realistically speaking. No, Mama Radojka, it is important for her to have her own apartment, to have her own peace. She still works at that center. I guess she is waiting a certain number of years to take a survivor’s pension from her late husband because he had a much higher average salary. And that, it is secured and situated in every respect. And if she had gone, she would have found out that her Tanya was forbidden to work. When we look at that family, we should always ask the question how much was the mother’s role? How much collective insanity is that? Because in such families, we had such cases in Serbia as well, it is very difficult to distinguish who is in charge here, and everyone acts as one sect, which is very interesting. And it is very difficult to break them with any tests, to turn them against each other. We had a case in Serbia where the whole country failed to defeat one family. And that in the end nothing was proven about who ordered the murder, who killed, did they know, did they participate. We see a similar situation here in Rijeka where the family works together, and where it becomes a victim. In one period, while Allen was again undergoing some kind of treatment, I assume because of those schizophrenic attacks, Tanja started working in Barba Frana’s bar. So, we know that in various companies, some company heads even reach out to bring a black sheep into the company. It means that they bring in one person who is irritating to everyone because then the whole community feels more connected because they have one point of hatred. So the whole company hates that person. The boss sees it, knows it and lets it go because he thinks that they are more productive if they have a reason, a person who connects them, that means intolerance towards that person. And probably the family is in a collective madness where it is not completely clear who was schizophrenic, who was under the influence of drugs, how much it all intertwines into a tangle, in fact they are embarking on their criminal campaign. She worked for a very short time. And after that he quits again. Again, she continues to live in the yellow house of terror and horror, where she suffered daily abuse both psychologically and materially, because now she depends on her mother-in-law and father-in-law. Her father-in-law didn’t mistreat her, he didn’t beat her, but her mother took part in the regular beatings that Allen applied to his unmarried wife Tanja. So he starts beating Tanja. The mother immediately came to the scene. It participates in its binding. They play loud music and beat her unconscious. At the same time, of course, they insult her. And now the neighbors say: “We never heard the shouting and wailing of Tanya from that house. We heard loud music, but we didn’t know what was happening there, because they are a bit strange. We know that the girl came very beautiful and that she was very developed. A real homely beautiful girl. they drink. Because they don’t even see her walking or going to those cafes. She goes with her mother-in-law. Well, I mean total madness. And the waitresses who worked in those cafes also said that it was strange to them. They watched Tanja deteriorate day by day. As she is getting thinner, she has more and more spots. And the mother does not come at all to visit her to see where her Tanya lives. Until 2005 for Easter. Then, after three years, the mother came to visit her daughter, to see her friends, to meet them. And as she said: “If I had known then,” as Radojka’s mother later said, “that Allen was a drug addict. I would have immediately picked up my child and taken him home.” I mean I can’t believe it. Why didn’t Radojka’s mother organize a mini-intelligence team to find out what kind of family her child is in and how he lives? She says: “I asked my daughter several times: Daughter, why do you live in someone else’s house? You have your own apartment, which is much more spacious and bigger than their house.” Because this house with all those additions has no more than 50 square meters. And Radojka’s mother has a 70-square-meter apartment in a building with all conditions: And Radojka’s mother has a 70-square-meter apartment in a building with all conditions: Water, electricity, all those other utilities. They know how the building works. And now, in addition to all that, she decides: “Okay, I saw something wrong there. Now I screwed up. I came for that Easter in 2005. But I didn’t like how they lived. I didn’t like them as people. I’m leaving my daughter Tanja. I’m leaving and I won’t come again”. But I really have to ask myself, is this normal behavior for a mother? But if we take into account the fact that her real mother was actually her late grandmother and not her biological mother, then this kind of behavior is not strange. Because I said from the very beginning that everything is strange about the growth of little Tanja since birth, until now, the parents are totally uninterested in her. I don’t know what the reason is? And what kind of person do you think Tanja could have grown into? Is it a person who has a lot of self-confidence? Or in a person who does not have self-confidence? I think that unfortunately it is the latter. Tanya had no self-confidence. And she didn’t know how to rate any person as excellent, despite the fact that she spent so many years in a tavern, which is an institution, where both good and bad, smart and thieves and intellectuals pass by. And you, as a worker in a bar, are a psychologist who needs to get into the brains of all those people, so that, God forbid, you don’t provoke them to hit you with the wrong, bad gesture. Not just by hand, but with a pixel or whatever. Because a seemingly normal young man comes, but maybe he actually escaped from some madhouse. You should immediately know what kind of person he is as a waiter or waitress by his behavior, by his story, by his approach. But Tanja unfortunately didn’t even know what her parents were like, let alone judge what kind of guest came to her bar and who she actually serves. For this reason, she fell into the trap of Alain Lambert and his mother Ankica, i.e. Anna. It is not clear to me that she decided all the time from the first day: “I endure beatings, I endure violence, I endure physical, material and any other maltreatment”. I absolutely cannot understand that. Only a person who considers himself absolutely worthless would accept such a thing. And obviously yes Tanya felt worthless and rejected from the very moment she grew up, when she was still a little girl, until the moment she entered the yellow house. Whenever we see such monstrous crimes, we ask those ultimate questions of does god exist? Are there good and evil? What kind of people are they who do such things? If we look at it from a theological aspect, the Holy Scriptures teach us that simply created beings cannot stand power. Because the very word for God in the Holy Scriptures, one of the names of God is Elohim, which would mean powerful. Because when a man gets power, the majority of people, and we see this in the example of our politicians, deal with it very badly. We have had examples in Croatia and Serbia of former prime ministers and presidents who physically changed when they fell from power. Their face would transform. Because if we go a little into their psychology, we ordinary people do not experience such things. Wherever he goes, doors are opened for him. Everyone bowed to him. Everyone has something better, nice words for him. And then they also lose a sense of themselves. And they thought that they were god with a small B. Now, these people who were people from the bottom of the social ladder suddenly felt the power. They could control someone’s life. And they, in a way, became drugged with it, with that desire and need to rule over her first. And then it crossed all borders. And the peak of my incomprehension towards the behavior of Radojka’s mother towards Tanya, the daughter of the unit, is the moment when a nurse from a hospital in Sušanj calls her and says: “Here is your daughter who was brought by ambulance because her lower jaw was broken in several places.” And she goes to visit her daughter. The daughter was really in the hospital. A broken jaw. That’s where the prosthesis was placed around the neck and around the jaw. There are no teeth on the lower jaw. They are all half-baked. For the doctor to tell her: “When we went to pick her up at the address where she lives in the Turnić neighborhood, her family members said that she fell on some bottles. They were actually, he says, some plastic bottles. And she broke her jaw and broke all her lower teeth.” And now she is here with her daughter. The daughter can’t talk. She wrote to her that she really fell over some plastic bottles and broke her lower jaw in several places. I just don’t know in what way. Maybe someone hit her with a mace when she fell on those plastic bottles. And Radojka’s mother says: “It was suspicious to me right away. I knew that someone beat and mistreated my daughter. And I asked her:” Did they beat you?” She shook her head, but wrote: “They beat you?” She shook her head, but wrote: “If they don’t come to visit me, I will end this life on a chain.” Now, why didn’t Radojka’s mother ask herself what kind of life on the chain it was actually about? And that December 2005, she was able to end her child’s nightmare. Because as she says later: after: She paid for the complete treatment and repair of her daughter’s teeth. So all the molar teeth on the lower jaw have been upgraded. And Radojka’s mother paid for it. And he says: “One time after that, my son-in-law Allen and my daughter visited me. They came to my apartment. I gave them the keys to my apartment. I noticed that when I was at work, they came there without my knowledge. But I never noticed that anything was missing. Not even the money that was on the table, or let’s say there on some tray.” He says: “It was never about a larger amount of money. Let’s say it was 10 or 20 kunas here or there. But it was never lacking. When my daughter asked me for money, she would say: “Mom, can you lend me 10 kunas? I would lend her 20. And she never paid me back. Or if she returned it, instead of 20, she would return 10.” And I don’t understand why after that hospital and after Tanya got out of it, instead of leaving her partner and reporting him to the police for domestic violence, because maybe the police would place him for some kind of treatment in a closed hospital, because his schizophrenia has become dangerous? No, she still suffers beatings. And there is no end to it. They are more and more persistent, at least they become united in a criminal plan to destroy the life of the unfortunate Tanje. And Boris lives all the time in that house, which is less than 50 square meters. And he pretends not to see anything. I don’t know his understanding and way of thinking. But I think this man had a paranoid fear. And I think he was extremely afraid of his wife, most likely his son. And maybe he said that: most likely his son too. And maybe he said something like that: “Well, let them beat her. It’s better to beat the unfortunate Tanya than to beat me.” Because maybe they beat him before, who knows? It wouldn’t surprise me. Because this behavior of a householder, the male head of the house, is absolutely unacceptable for our climate. Regardless of the fact that it is Rijeka, it is known who is the host and who is the head of the house. And he should have said: “Stop woman, why are you beating that child? Some mother gave birth to it. If it doesn’t suit our son, it doesn’t suit you, it’s not for our house, let him leave the house and let him go to his own house”. We see that in a family where a woman earns money, she quite often assumes the role of the dominant alpha male, the dominant member of the family. The husband becomes completely passive. And in addition to a strong domineering mother, in addition to a woman who has, as neurologists and psychiatrists say, this biopower, it most often happens that the son is someone with an Oedipus complex, that is, someone who is eternally attached to his mother and to whom the mother is his everything. Or it often happens that the son is also homosexual when the mother is so strong. Why? Because the son takes over the behavior patterns of the one who is dominant, that is the mother. So he cannot emulate his father. And for him, the “masculinity” he sees is actually female masculinity in quotation marks. If I were in Boris’ place, let’s not say now, I would call the police, but I would call Radojka and say: but I would call Radojka and say: “Radojka will come and take her child home. They beat him every day.” And period. He would say that. And Boris was guilty. And in some way, by not doing anything, he participated in this criminal plan to destroy a young life, which at that moment was less than 30 years old. In addition, this is another important thing: Research shows, and some experience teaches us that women commit crimes much less often. Let’s say I was surprised at the driving school when the teacher there told us that, I don’t know, 94% of traffic violations are committed by men. I still thought that women work at least 20, 30%. But I don’t know about it, don’t take me for a number, but over 90 men work. On the other hand, we see that in wars, women participate much less often in wars, in any criminal activities. But when they do participate, they are often more brutal. Some of the biggest crimes we had in the 90s in Bosnia, Croatia, Serbia were committed by women. And there, apparently, according to some of my estimates, the mother was the mastermind of the operation, the mother was a psychopath. The son was a weak, equally psychopathic personality. And in 2006, the month of April came. No one saw Tanja even walking in the yard anymore. She heard from her mother a couple of times. She said that it was fine, that she would come to visit her mother. “She even came once,” as her mother says, “at the beginning of April with Boris.” And after that she didn’t hear from her for some time. The last time she heard from her daughter was on April 28. Since then, she persistently tried to have a daughter, but she could not. And instead of calling the police, to say: “Let’s go see what is happening in the yellow house where my child lives”. She was worried. And what happened to the unfortunate Tanja? Tanja, this unfortunate young woman, was tied to the bed by her husband and her mother-in-law. They first tied her with some ribbons for her legs and hands. The hands were above the head. They were not up to the body but above the head. The legs were tied with some ribbon, tightly so that they could not be separated. And then they took some sticky tape. Most likely it’s those construction adhesive tapes that are strong. And then they plastered her like a mummy around the bed. They also taped her mouth shut. And every day this girl was beaten with wooden rolling pins. They beat her so much that she got countless fractures on her ribs, legs, arms, and face. That torture lasted approximately between April 28 and May 18. On May 18, Ankica goes to clean a doctor’s house. And while she was cleaning that gentleman’s house, her cell phone rang. And her favorite only son Allen called. And he said: “Mom, I think Tanya stopped breathing, that she died”. And what is Ankica doing now? He’s coming home. They completely peel off the wrapped, unhappy and now dead Tanya. They are taking off all the bandages she was tied with. They drop her hands by her body. I guess they were cleaning it there, wiping it. What have they been doing? Only Ankica knew that. Because I assume that at one point she threw her son Allen out of the room they had turned into a tomb because they bought sticky black tape and taped the glass so that no light could enter that room. The girl lived in complete darkness. They did not give her food or water for at least 18 days. They were the first to determine what she should do in life. She agreed. Then they took away her freedom. And then finally they came to that last step, which was that they took her life. And we wonder what kind of people they are? But as I have said many times, Christianity and other religions do not have an answer to the question of evil, that is, they say: “That it is the so-called secret of lawlessness”. That we humans can never understand evil in this world, no matter how much we think about it. Because if evil were comprehensible, then it would not be evil. Because if they had some rational reason to do it, then it wouldn’t be evil. However, there wasn’t a single rational reason for them to live over that girl. Mom called an ambulance at 5 pm and said: “Please come to the Turnić neighborhood, address so and so, yellow house. You’ll see right away. I think my sister-in-law is very sick. She can’t breathe.” And, of course, emergency help comes when called to the indicated address. And when they entered that house and stepped into the room where the unfortunate Tanya was, the doctors experienced a shock. On the bed lay the naked body of a dead woman who was extremely emaciated, as if she had been thrown out of a World War II concentration camp. Bone and skin. She also had countless scabs and wounds from the injuries she received. Also around the legs, around the ankles, around the hands there was a trace that she had been bound for who knows how many days. The doctors were immediately suspicious of something there. They also called the police. The police came, they did an investigation. And the prosecution ordered that the body of the unfortunate Tanja be transferred to the Forensic Medicine for an autopsy. The doctor immediately established that Tanja died by suffocation from the pus that was in her chest, actually in her lungs. She couldn’t breathe anymore because of the pus. And now her mother-in-law Ankica tells the police and doctors that her daughter-in-law has been a little strange lately. That she refused to eat. And there she died, crushed willingly by anger and hangover. You can imagine a crazy statement. Of course, the police found it all suspicious. This family has been placed under surveillance. Most likely, listening phones. And the doctors were still determining how and in what way the injury occurred on the body of the unfortunate Tanja. On the lower back they found a large open wound which they estimated was at least two weeks old. The wound must have been caused by lying down because the unfortunate young woman had been bound for nearly three weeks. She couldn’t even go to the toilet. She did all that right there on that bed. You can imagine the monstrosity on the part of her mother-in-law and husband Allen. It’s just that people don’t believe it. They say that intelligence is not inherited from the mother. I’m not 100% sure. I think that intelligence is more inherited from the mother. But let’s leave that question aside. Neurologists say it’s a myth. But it is certain that the pathological disorder of the psyche is inherited from the parents. And that they are not inherited, that they are also acquired, so if the mother was a psychopath, how could the child not be? It is very difficult for a child not to develop some personality disorders in addition to a psychopathic mother, even if he did not inherit the genes from his mother. So my opinion is that the mother was actually a psychopath. That the father was simply someone who fell under the influence of the mother, simply a weak personality. And from a weak father and a disturbed mother, a different son could not have developed but into a weak personality, prone to drugs, with problems of perhaps a schizophrenic nature. And the mother may simply perceive that woman as a competitor, if we know that she was also dear to that father Stjepan Boris Tanja. Son obviously likes her when he brought her. It is possible that the mother was showing that she is still the only woman in their life. And regardless of the fact that the doctor at the autopsy determined that Tanja died of natural causes by suffocating from pus in her lungs, the prosecution came to the conclusion that such a state occurred because Tanja was tied in an immobile position for almost a month, that she was deliberately tortured, beaten and abused by her husband and her mother-in-law. And that people who did something like that could not count on such a person to survive something similar. Actually they were doing all that to kill her. And that’s what they did. Because after such suffering, as the forensic medicine doctor said : “It’s not that he didn’t have a similar case in his career, but he was looking for a similar case from around the world. And he didn’t find anything similar, not even in Africa.” You can imagine what kind of torment and suffering the unfortunate Tanja Brnelić lived and died in at the age of 30. And on May 25, by order of the same prosecutor’s office, mother and son, Alen and Ankica Lambert, were deprived of their liberty. They were remanded in custody for up to 30 days. And later it was extended. An investigation was conducted. During that investigation, Allen was a little more talkative than his mother. The mother defended herself with silence. Allen said that he and his wife only had misunderstandings because his wife Tanja mortgaged his family home where they lived by forging his father’s signature to get €15,000. Imagine, which she gave to one of her friends because she was in financial problems. And this one lived, I think, in abundance, so we don’t ask. People just don’t believe it. Of course, the police knew that such a statement had no credibility. Because if Tanja had taken any kind of loan, there would have been extensive documentation in the same bank that approved the loan. After six months, the trial of mother and son, Alen and Ankica, began for the murder of the unfortunate Tanja. Many witnesses appeared at this trial. The trial lasted almost two years. Ankičin’s husband and Alenov’s father Stjepan Boris were called as witnesses. He said at this trial that he loved his late daughter-in-law Tanja very much. That she was very cheerful and attentive to him, that she cooked well. Imagine he says, “While my wife went to clean those apartments to earn money to survive, my sister-in-law cooked well.” And he says: “I respected and appreciated her very much for that. And as far as the relationship between my son and my daughter-in-law is concerned, they used to quarrel, mostly over some story about an alleged loan for which I don’t know whether the daughter-in-law took it or not. But they argued about that loan. But I never noticed that my son beat my daughter-in-law. And even less did I notice that my wife Ankica raised her voice against my daughter-in-law. And even less that my wife participated in to the mistreatment and premeditated murder of my sister-in-law Tanja, whom Ankica loved just as much as a mother-in-law should love her daughter-in-law”. So the background of that whole family, a working-class neighborhood, a neighborhood with a lot of crime, with a lot of drugs, poor people. And on the one hand, there is a girl who joins them from a very bad family background, who had almost no contact with her parents. The later we discover that her mother had very little contact with her daughter. And regardless of the fact that she washes herself during the trial, she accuses the Lamberts more and more, even though at the beginning of the trial she only had words of praise for them. We actually learn from the trial and everything that follows that case, that maybe if the mother had been more active, if she cared more about her daughter, maybe she could have done something in that situation when that poor girl was practically left at the mercy of that family. Nobody knows about her, nobody asks about her. And she is there in a hellish prison, in that yellow house, at the foot of those huge Turnika skyscrapers. And now the judges knew that Boris was lying at this trial, because it is impossible that he did not notice in a month the monstrosity and torture that was done to Tanja. That he didn’t notice anything strange and that he didn’t hear anything. Because the house is actually a two-room apartment. Even less than that. It has only 50 square meters. How did he not know what was going on in that room? He did not participate in the malteting. That is the conclusion of the court. He didn’t take part in the bonding either, but he acts like he did. Admittedly, according to the laws of the continental legal system, the closest relatives have the right to lie in court, or not to testify at all against their closest relatives precisely because of blood relations, up to the third generation. And here we are talking about the wife and the first generation, that is, the son. The court also forgave Boris for this lie. It was not taken as a criminal offense. And he is freed from all responsibility. And after two years, Ankica Lambert was sentenced to 32 years in prison for her participation in the murder his sister-in-law Tanja. And Tanya’s unmarried husband Alen was sentenced to 30 years in prison. And as the judge explained, the fact that Allen was actually in constant fear of his mother was also taken into account. And he unquestioningly carried out her every order. His schizophrenic behavior from time to time was also taken into account. And that he was treated for the same disease. The fact that he used narcotics was also taken into account. All this was taken into account as a mitigating circumstance. But it was also taken as an aggravating circumstance that he was in the detention unit several times for possession and trafficking of narcotics. As for Ankica herself, as they said: “She had the only mitigating circumstance because she was never convicted on any count, neither misdemeanor nor criminal.” But since the court came to the conclusion that she was the initiator of all this, her punishment is more severe. And she was sentenced to 32 years in prison. The article under which they were tried provided for a prison sentence of 10 to 40 years in prison. We draw three lessons from this whole tragic story: We draw three lessons from this whole tragic story: One for society, the other for parents, meaning for the family. And the third for an individual who finds himself in such a situation. For society, this is a lesson of how important family is. How family is the foundation of everything. For parents, this is a lesson that you must never let the street, grandparents, anyone else take control of your child. So you are responsible for your child. Your child is roughly 50% your genes, 50% your upbringing. So no one else is responsible for your child’s behavior but you. Money can’t, career can’t, nothing can be more important than raising a child. It means that you give it, that you delegate that greatest responsibility to grandparents, to the street, to society, to kindergarten, to school. Even when a child goes to school every day, it is painful, it is exhausting. You have to sit down with the child and ask the most boring question: “What was at school?” Neither the child is interested in what happened at school, nor you. But it is not because of what happened at school, but because the child would always have control, because then it is more difficult to turn left and right. And then he won’t ask someone else to control his life. And third: If you were in such a situation that you grew up without parental control, or in very bad family relations, then the most important thing is to recognize your childhood frustrations, your complexes, and your childhood pathologies as soon as possible, to face them and try to overcome them. First of all, make them aware. Because when you are aware of some of your weaknesses, it is much easier for you to fight. Because if that Tanya knew what she was looking for, it would be easier for her to see: Because if that Tanya knew what she was looking for, it would be easier for her to see: “Maybe I need control, but not this kind of control”. At one time, this case greatly disturbed the entire Kvarner area, and by God, the entire region. He is still talked about today. And this event must never be forgotten. We have to talk about him because parents have to behave more conscientiously towards their children. Because I believe that in this case, the conscience of the parents of the unfortunate Tanja, that is, the conscience of her mother, failed . Because she reported to the police that something strange was happening in the house where her daughter lives, and that she almost forced her daughter not to live there anymore. Maybe this unfortunate young woman, Tanja, would have stayed alive. I think that this is certainly not a unique case. Most likely, something monstrous like this happened in another region. It may be happening right now in our neighborhood. And that’s why we have to be careful. My Latin teacher always said that unlimited freedom is the greatest slavery. Obviously, that unlimited freedom she had was slavery to her. And she asked for someone to take care of her for the first time in her life, to set a limit for her, for someone to perhaps take responsibility for her. And when she experienced it, she, as she did not learn in childhood what normal limits, normal control and normal responsibility are, she could not at first recognize the signals that it was pathological control and pathological assumption of responsibility for her. And that was key. She simply from the fact that she dragged deep frustrations from her childhood because she did not have parental supervision, after that she ended up in a pathologically sick, perverted relationship that she probably did not recognize for a long time. And probably she asked herself for a long time: “What is wrong with me?” So it probably happened gradually. They took away their freedom one by one. And at one point she found herself tied up in a darkened room without food and died in terrible agony. I don’t know if you have ever heard of a similar event. And even if you didn’t, I would like to hear your opinion on how you would act if you went to visit your child, that is, your daughter, and you saw that something was wrong with her, that she had suddenly lost weight, that she must have been mistreated and beaten? And besides, you visited her while she was in the hospital with a broken jaw. Would you let your child go back to that damn yellow house? We have to talk about this case because it must not be forgotten, with the hope that something like this will never happen again anywhere.

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